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20 Powerful Bible Verses on Forgiving Others

Bible Verses on Forgiving Others

“Not forgiving is like drinking cat poison and then waiting for the rat to die.” – Anne Lamott

How well do you forgive others?

I have really started to think about how poorly I am at forgiving others. I hold on to a grudge for years. I still hold it against my college friends who always picked me last for intramural basketball. One of these days, this 5’8″ white boy with the coordination of a drunk man on stilts will school each of one of them in a lethal game of 1 on 1.

On a serious note, God truly calls us to forgive others. How can we expect forgiveness to be lavished upon us if we don’t share the same sentiments on forgiving others?

Bible Verses on Forgiving Others

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Secret to Lifelong Friendships

Living Life with Purpose

Dear children, let us not love with words or tongue but with actions and in truth. – 1 John 3:18

How Do You Live?

A God-loyal life keeps you on track;
sin dumps the wicked in the ditch.

A pretentious, showy life is an empty life;
a plain and simple life is a full life. – Proverbs 13:6-7

Admit a Mistake and Reclaim the Passions of Your Heart

“I do not at all understand the mystery of grace – only that it meets us where we are but does not leave us where it found us.”

Admitting a Mistake Will Transform Your Life

How far will you drive before you admit a mistake and must turn around?

How I Enjoyed the Day After Admitting My Own Mistake

This morning, I took my 2 sons blackberry picking. They were extremely psyched to go. They are always excited to go anywhere. I could say, “Hey, lets go sit in a cardboard box for 3 days straight and they would shout for joy and say I am the most awesome daddy in the world.

Kids just enjoy experiencing every aspect of life you can give.

We have went blueberry picking the past couple of years, but this was the first time for blackberries. I was informed that I actually missed the season for the blueberries which was a bummer so I decided I’d try blackberries this year. It was a new experience, and also a new farm.

I had no idea where it was located.

I planned to meet with my friend. She went the previous weekend and knew the route quite well. She always knows the route and is always prepared. I would be more jealous of her if it wasn’t for the fact I have grown to depend on her for my sanity. A smart man would’ve asked her for the directions and written them down.

People have accused me of many labels but smart man is not a popular one.

Instead of paying attention to my friend’s directions, I nodded my head and acted in my cool, nonchalant way. I pretended that I completely knew how to get there and I daydreamed about what song I was going to sing on my American Idol audition.

I knew there was a left turn at a light and some other road that I’d see.

The boys and I started driving down the highway. We entered dense woods and I figured that the road will approach us soon. I kept an eye out for the road where I needed to turn, but mostly focused on singing a family chorus of “Jingle bells, batman smells. Robin laid an egg…”

Yes, I am a single father with 2 sons. What song would you expect us to sing?

20 or so miles past and I started to wonder, “Did I miss the road? Should I turn around?” I decided against it. When all else fails, the best decision is always to go straight. Eventually, you will end up where you want or China. Either way, you know what you must do next.

“Welcome to Alachua County”

All of a sudden, I saw a large green sign that read, “Welcome to Alachua County.” Alachua County sits next to my own and is 30 miles past my destination. I pulled over to the side of the road and quickly turned the other way. I called my friend and said, “I think I am lost. Where was I supposed to turn?”

The boys asked why did I turn around and I told them that daddy got lost. They looked at each other and giggled, “Silly daddy, he always gets lost.”

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How Do You Get Motivated?

I have been in a rut.

I can’t seem to get motivated to start on any of my goals. It frustrates me because I have so much on my list that I need to get done, but it keeps on slipping further and further away. I want to get started. I want to take over the world

But I just end up turning to shut the snooze button again for another 10 minutes.. Taking over the world can wait another 5 minutes.

Why can’t I get started?

Contribute Your Personal Motivational Strategies and Stories

I need some motivational tactics to help me get started throughout the day and I would like your help. What tactics or strategies have you used to start a goal or start your day? What was the difficult parts for you to overcome and how has finding the motivation helped you?

I want to collect a huge list of stories about how people motivate themselves. I will post them and feature them here at altNoise so we can all learn from one another. We all have our individual motivational strategies and maybe yours will help me.

Will you Contribute to the List and Help Those In Need of Motivation?

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altNoise May Insights

altnoise may insightsI have decided to do a new project out here. Many people ask me various questions about altNoise from topics I write about to monthly visitor statistics and even how much money I make.

How dare they!

Well, I’ve decided to embrace the questions and every month I am going to post the changes with results I made the previous month along with the ones I plan on making on the upcoming month. I will also include the statistics and possibly my revenue (if there is anything).

Reasons to Share Insights and Statistics for altNoise

I wish I could say that I came up with this idea all by my lonesome, but I cannot. I am only a copycat. I follow a man named Pat Flynn who does the same thing on his uber-successful blog SmartPassiveIncome.com. His focus is showing his monthly income (which should convince you to stay away from a medical profession). You can see his April 11 report by clicking here.

I will report my income from altNoise which currently is sad in comparison to Mr. Pat Flynn, but won’t be the primary focus. I hope to accomplish two goals with this endeavor.

One for you and one for me.

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My Secret to Losing Weight Healthily Through Confidence and Encouragement

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If you hear a voice within you say “you cannot paint,” then by all means paint, and that voice will be silenced. ~Vincent Van Gogh

Three years ago, I weighed 210 lbs. Today, I weigh 150.

You can see a picture of me over there on the right as a somewhat decent looking guy that looks healthy. I am healthy and very proud to be within a reasonable weight limit, but this hasn’t always been the case.

How I Gained Confidence to Lose 60 lbs of Weight Healthily

A little over three years ago, I was at the lowest point in my life. I topped the scales at 210 lbs and the weight never seemed to end. In reality, I didn’t care. I ate and didn’t exercise. I would step on a scale once every two months and would see a jump. I never was surprised by the findings. At first, it was depressing, but after it awhile, my feelings became worse as they drifted towards apathy and acceptance.

I accepted a fate that told me I will always be overweight.

It was at this time that my life was also going through a whirlwind of drama and I was at my all-time low. I don’t want to get into the details, but I seemed lost and on the losing side of the battle for life. Everywhere I turned, the walls came crashing down on me. The world pushed me back into the mud every time I tried to stand back on my feet.

All of my dreams and hopes began to vanish before my eyes.

Then one day it all crashed.

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How I Deal With Negative People in Life to Create Passion and Purpose

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“A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.” -Winston Churchill

“I am a realist. I only want what’s best for you.”

Ya right.

The Signs of Negative People and Their Snake Oil

You’ve probably heard these words many times in your life if you truly have a passion to make your world a better place to live. These realists try to pass off as someone whom is more in touch with reality than you are and therefore you should listen to what they have to say. After all, you just have your head in the clouds.

Can you say, ‘mularkey’? Go ahead and try it. “muh-lar-key’.

There was a time in my life where I allowed myself to believe them. Maybe I am too dreamy. Maybe I am destined to work as a bag boy for the rest of my life (not that there is anything wrong with being a bag boy). I should temper my dreams and focus on reality.

They won. I chained my dreams to the dark ends of my mind never to see the light of day again.

Or so I thought.

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Join Stephen on Facebook and Receive a Special Gift

Late last night I finally broke down and did it. I have been putting it off for months. Everyday that passed seemed to make it harder so I decided to end the procrastination.

I created a Facebook fan page for me as a writer.

Why A Personal Stephen Miracle Fan Page?

Many of you send me questions every day in regards to life, relationships and faith. These questions have really deepened my own desire to know more. The page allows another outlet for you to share these questions to me and also help out other members in the altNoise community.

We can all work together to truly encourage one another and make an impact on each of our own lives and the world.

This fan page excites me because it gives us a chance to really connect on a friend level unlike before. Facebook provides such an opportunity that really transforms how people can interact across the world. We are no longer limited by the geographical boundaries to find people who really want impact the world.

My Personal Motive for the Page

I’ll admit it. I have an additional motive for the page. I write all of my articles inspired by your comments, conversations, and concerns. Every single time that I open up a Word document to write a new article, I think about issues that I know are affecting you.

My personal desire is to provide a much deeper opportunity to write articles that truly empowers your life.

I want the chance for you to share your own struggle with finding a job or dealing with an annoying neighbor so that I can encourage you when you really need it. I don’t want to write articles that brings a slight smile to thousands of faces. I don’t care about thousands of faces.

I want to write articles that ignites God’s flame and vision for your life – Articles that inspires and empowers your soul to truly transform your life to a passionate purpose.

a Gift to the First 100 Fans

I have a special gift set up for the first 100 fans of the page. I am not going to say what it is. After all, I like to create intrigue. But I can say that it truly is a personal gift that I created from my own heart for you.

Every single 1 of the gifts will be unique and personalized  for you.

Click ‘Like’ on My Brand New Page

 

Should I Give Up on Him? Know When to Quit a Relationship

Disclaimer: This article is not intended for issues regarding marriage. The intended audience is those in a dating or engaged relationship.

Should I Give Up on Him?

Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. 6 Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take. [Proverbs 3:5-6]

Should I Give Up on Him or Her?

Relationships are impossibly hard.

I think they are designed to be that way. We are all complex and, lets just be honest, annoying creatures. We live each day thinking about our own responsibilities and tasks. We become frustrated when the old man who innocently dialed the wrong number takes more than 20 seconds to figure out his mistake.

How do we handle living in a relationship where there is always someone interrupting our personal time?

Martians will think that we are insane!

We hate when people interrupt us, but we still yearn for someone who  will stay true with us. We know that at the end of the day we cannot do it alone nor do we want to. We come home after a stressful day and all of the frustrations melt away when we see that smile that says, “I am still here. We will do it together.”

But what happens when the smile vanishes?

Our Silly Addiction to the Intoxication of Love

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5 Tips to Attract and Finding Nice Guys

Attract and Finding a Nice Guy

attracting-finding-nice-guyLast week, I had an interesting conversation with an old female friend over the phone. We knew each other in college and I had a good crush on her. I didn’t pursue her because she was a friend and I didn’t get any vibes she was interested. I assumed she was googley-eyed for one of the John Mayer wannabe’s strutting through the school.

I was not John Mayer.

I am definitely more Steve Carell – strange and goofy. I always dreamt that I could be one of those suave and awesomely cool guys. You know, those guys that dress as they were the entertainment in a three ring circus but still exude cool from their pores. They can totally rock the flannel shirts and beaded jewelry.

I tried to wear flannel shirts once. I live in Florida. It was hot and I was told that I looked like the star character in a horror film. I had sneaking suspicion that it wasn’t a compliment.

Do the Nice Guys Know You Like Them?

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Seek the Face of God Through the Storm

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“If you look for me wholeheartedly, you will find me. I will be found by you,” says the Lord. – Jeremiah 29:13-14a [NLT]

Seek the Face of God in Your Life

Do you honestly seek the face of God in your life?

I have a lot of questions racing through my head regarding my future and current situations. I don’t know if I should move or even where I should go. I ask myself if it is time for a career change. I ask God for the diligence so I can raise my children to succeed in life.

I pray that I see His plan.

but do I ever search for God’s face in my daily life?

Does God Truly Hear Me?

We all doubt our faith from time to time. You will encounter a day that your heart breaks down while driving in the car and you end up screaming, “God, are you there? Spread the skies so I can see your face!” You will look upward in hopes of finding a small glimmer of something spectacular so your faith will remain strong.

Nothing happens.

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